Today is our 4th anniversary and it’s so amazing to look back on our life together and see how much we’ve grown and matured as a couple. What I think is so incredible is that every single day we’ve grown a little closer together and our marriage has been strengthened. There hasn’t been a time when things regressed or got worse (sure we’ve had challenges) our life together has only been made better by spending more time together. There isn’t a day that I don’t thank God for bringing us together and giving us the opportunity to live this life. I have no idea what the future holds for us or even what we’ll be doing in the next few months or years…but one thing I know for certain is that Jessica and I will always be with each other as partners in our life together.
Marriage is such an interesting institution because you are committing to spending your entire life with one person…and in some cases that can be 50, 60 or even 70 years together. What is so amazing is how the great couples keep growing together all that time. They persevere through life, the ups and downs, the good and bad, no matter what, they are constantly loving each other, committing to each other and becoming a better couple. And that to me is the true gift of me and Jessica…that together we are better than if we were apart…that with each other we become our truest selves…together we can accomplish anything that God gives to us…our goal in life is to continue building our relationship and to hopefully be an example to others.
We aren’t perfect and we have a (long) ways to go before we get to 50 years (or even 10 years) but the challenge is exciting to us. The chance to be together everyday gives us hope and faith in ourselves and our abilities to accmplish anything.
Jessica is an amazing person and I am a better man for having in her my life. So thank you honey for being an inspiration, a friend and the most amazing wife that I could have asked for.
Now here’s Jessica’s thoughts on our 4th anniversary…(in her own words.)
I remember the day we met. From the first conversation I knew that you were someone special. You were never intimidated by me, instead you accepted my every strength and flaw. You saw ME…not the me that most people saw, but a deeper version of myself that I didn’t even know existed. You saw me before I even knew myself.
I remember our first kiss – like a thousand butterflies swarming in my stomach. I still get those same butterflies today. I remember our first date – I was so nervous the entire way up to Denver. Little did I know I would meet my future in-laws! I firmly believe that one’s family plays an incredibly important role in the creation of a well-rounded person. Your family is amazing. Your parents are wonderful role-models of unmatched patience and unselfish, everlasting love. Your sisters have become the little sisters I never had. I cannot wait to see them interact with our children. (Don’t get too excited guys…we’re not quite there yet.)
I love the way you get along with my family as well. From making all of them laugh with your stories and never-ending humor – to being the crazy, lovable Uncle Andrew to our two amazing nephews…you have seamlessly entered my family.
I knew you were the one for me…my partner, my better-half and the love of my life very early in our relationship. Having lost my mother to cancer only 7 months before we met – I was wandering through life numb. I have very few memories of those 7 months – then I met you and life became so much more beautiful and alive than I ever remembered. You came into my life at the very moment that I needed someone the most, and for that I am eternally grateful.
The past 7 years have been amazing – and the last 4 years have been nothing but marital bliss. Thank you for supporting me through all of the ups and downs. I am incredibly excited about what the future holds for us. I know that no matter what comes our way, we will attack it with the same persistence and tenacity that we always have – working together as partners. I love you more with each passing day – more than I did 4 years ago today when we got married. You have my heart and soul – you have all of me – today – and everyday.
XOXO – Jess